what kind of advice should i give herMy friend wants to cheat on her husband but doesn't know where to start, how can i help her out, what advice..?
You should actually be a better friend to her, and give her the advice NOT to do it. If she wants to be cheater, then she should just leave the marriage. Honestly, how hard is it to control ourselves these days??? Aren't you also friends with the husband? How can you even think to look him in the eye, knowing what she is thinking of doing? What if the woman brings home a disease to him? Tell her to grow up and be an adult. Stay or leave, but she can't have it both ways.My friend wants to cheat on her husband but doesn't know where to start, how can i help her out, what advice..?
Jay I don't know if your a man or a woman, but you as far as I am concerned you have come to the wrong place to post a question as disgusting as this. Lots of us here in marriage and divorce have been hurt by our loved ones cheating. I can only assume you think you are a great friend doing this but now I question your motives and true care for this friend who wants to screw around behind her husbands back. We don't like liars and deceitful individuals who come on here to brag about cheating or get advice on how to cheat. Do you like your friend and I use the word friend lightly because you are way to willing to helping her destroy her marriage even if it is not a good one. Do you like yourself? Do you have any integrity or compassion for this friend? Why don't you look up a marriage counselor or try talking her out of this attempt to cheat and not assist her, I would not want a friend like you I guess the saying is true ';KEEP YOUR FRIENDS CLOSE AND YOUR ENEMIES CLOSER. Read between the lines and figure out which one you truly are..
Tell your friend that if she wants to date and sleep with other guys, she should file for divorce. ASAP. Also, IF she decides to start cheating, you should cut this ';friend'; off, and end ALL contact with her FOREVER. You wouldn't stay friends with a woman that was trying to find a way to poison her kids, or planned to make big bucks by pimping out her kids for internet perverts. Cheaters aren't people that honorable married people should associate with. Just as a parent shouldn't hang around with people they KNOW are pedophiles
I wish everyone would have read your question better. I think you are asking simply for advice. You did not ask for advice on how to help her. I am going to address your question the way I read it. I would tell her to get a divorce or at least speak to her husband about what is wrong. Forget the emotional betrayal...he does not deserve to be potentially exposed to various STD's or Aids. She should grow up and not take risks with other peoples health and life!!!
How would you like it is your husbands or b/f's buddy helped him to cheat on you?
Oh you wouldn't mind at all! It is a GOOD thing if they cheat on you!
I would tell her she is a wh-re and you want no part of her affair or her ,but only a DECENT human being would say that to her.
The best advice is to hand her a tall glass of shut the F up. You should never condone cheating. If it has gotten to the point of that, she should just try to get divorced. Cheating won't fix the marriage, nor will it make her happy.
Explain to your lady friend what the word ';marriage'; means and what it entails, as in giving up all other men except for the husband to whom she pledged her fidelity, trust and love.
My married friend says the first rule is to think, ';Is THAT (person being considered to cheat with) worth what I would risk losing?'; She says that for her, the answer has always been a big, resounding, ';NO FECKING WAY!!';
Well since your such a good friend, but do not want to personally get involved in this affair. Just send me her number, I will be glad to talk to her, I'm sure my wife and I can fill whatever her desires may be.
I think KingAndrew was correct, do not get involved. Just be a friend and be there for support. Let someone else be the person that she has the affair with, and of course, I'm willing also.
This can not be serious. If it is and all else fails, tell her to head to the bus stop commando and just spread her legs. Then everyone will know what and who she is.
How about she doesn't start at all and puts an effort into being a human being. What a freakin cow of a friend you got there. Tell her to get divoriced, not help her find someone to cheat with you dunce!
say if she is not loving her husband get a divorce and then do that.
Give her the # of a good divorce attorney.
Think that will help? :)
Either stay out of it or tell her to get a divorce
Tell her good luck.
Hire her a good divorce attorney. She' s going to need one.
Tell her to call me!
Wow, some people.......tell her to get an attourney and get divorced
give her my number
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
No comments:
Post a Comment