I'm a virgin and I need sex advice! Help?

I need some sex advice! I'm getting married soon, and I was just wondering if you had any helpful hints for me. What do you wish you would have known about sex before you had sex?I'm a virgin and I need sex advice! Help?
Well, make sure to get aroused first, use lubrication, relax, and go slow. Oral sex first will help, too. Not to mention it's fun. And good for you for waiting to have sex til you're married, not many people do that. Hope this helps. Good luck.I'm a virgin and I need sex advice! Help?
If your new husband knows youre a virgin, and he loves you, he'll take it slow and easy. Its possible that if your night is very exciting (sexually) and he works with you (oral sex that will make you have an orgasm), you'll be very ready when he inserts.





I dont know if you may have a little something to drink to celebrate the marriage (but dont overdo it before that special time because you dont want to be drunk or anything), that may help make you more comfortable. Dont get so focused on whether there will be pain that you dont have a good memory.





There are ways to make this one beautiful experience!!
Well I am a virgin and first; I must say that most definitely wear condoms, both of you and second; it may also help to be on birth control b/c my friend had sex and wore a condom and was on birth control and she said that it was WAYYY more comfortable for her and for her husband, and as most people say the more protection the better!!!
Ok this may seem unimportant but do not just think about getting to the sex... it's important to warm up to it: touching eachother, slowly undressing each other etc... This part should last until you start to really want him to make love to you.





Also, I'm not sure if you know what form, texture etc... your hymen has... I've heard of girls who's boyfriends couldn't break it as it was to think. I'm sure this is very rare but you could always have a doctor check.
i would say my first time i wish i would have been more relaxed i was so scared that i was doing something wrong. so just try not to be embarrassed and know that what you are doing is sharing with each other a special part of your life that only he will have and just let the moment take over...congrats on getting married!!
take it slow dont rush to fast. make sure your husband knows your a Virgin so he wont be to rough. the first time will hurt, but it will feel better the next time. it can still make you sore, so it will take a few times. also lubrication's can help but it will still hurt.





also good for you being a Virgin until married :)
Since it's going to be your first time, take it really slowly! I'm not sure how it is for every woman, but it hurt a lot for me. I bled a little the first 3 or 4 times and I was a little sore the next day. It definitely gets easier each time you do it! The part that hurts the most is breaking the hymen, and then you have to stretch some down there. It will be wonderful once all of that is out of the way though! Enjoy!
Relax!!!! This will make things go soooo much easier and will reduce any pain you might feel.


Just let things happen naturally and don't stress it. No one's first time is perfect, so make sure your expectations aren't too high, and just believe that with time and practice it will get better.
Well I was a virgin until 2 months ago.


Honestly it hurt so bad that we had to stop.. but that was just me.


Make SURE you are not tensed up like I was.. that causes pain. Go slow and like the person above said.. use lube if you need it. Don't just jump in when he's ';ready'; but make sure you are ';wet'; down there..
does your hubby to be know you are a virgin? if so he wont be mad with your sex skills.
tall your husband to go slow..no hurry and to use lube as needed.
Try before you buy!
your body will know what to do naturally