Why can't my mom friends give her advice? Help!?

My mother always give her friends advice about their problems all the time. She shouldve been a counselor. Now when my mom has issues with men and things, they can never give her advice. My mother is a strong, powerful women of integrity. Can anyone give me some advice on why my moms friends cant help her?Why can't my mom friends give her advice? Help!?
simply that your mom is a strong powerful women of integrity and her friends just aren't, so how can they be on the same plane? Most people want advice or praise for attempting to give advise rather than make an effort to give good advice.Why can't my mom friends give her advice? Help!?
Oh, yes, there are many women that love to preach but are not open to hear the voice of Godly people that want to save her some trouble.





Some day she will realize she is as lost as anybody else, we all need advice, we all need the community to help us grow. Your mom might think she is smarter than the others but unfortunately she is the biggest fool, integrity doesn't come with close minded people. There is no solution to your mom's world, just let her believe she is powerful she must really like to hear it a lot.
And.....some friends are users and takers and they don't mind imposing on your mom for help but when it's their turn they're too selfish to want to use their energy to help. They like to be the needy ones and maybe, just maybe, they really aren't smart enough to offer any help. If they're so dependant that they have to run to HER for help all the time, they're obviously not able to think for themselves and thus think for others!!!





BUT a good friend will still listen and sympathize!!!





When your mom needs advice, and knowing that SHE gives good advice, help her by saying, well if it was a friend of yours, what would you tell HER to do.........and your mom will quickly solve her own problems.





She's probably just more comfortable with helping others than helping herself but she's smart enough to do both!!





maybe she asks for their advice because she just wants to be one of them and show them that she too needs others.......it's her way of trying to make them feel needed!!





Your mom is a smart woman and in truth she doesn't NEED anyone else to help her, though it always is nice to have friends who seem that they care enough to want to try.





Give your mom a hug from me!!
Maybe since she's always giving them advice they feel she can give herself advice or that theirs wouldn't be the right kind to give her.


Sometimes people don't give advice because they're scared that if their advice is followed and something happens that the person didn't want to happen, Then they could get blamed for it.