People keep mocking him, saying that he's gay, because he walks and talks in a girly way and he barely has any guy friends, but he's not gay and it hurts him when people say that. Im the only one he could talk 2 abt this, and he asked me 2 help him build his confidence, any tips? Im looking for something a bit detailed here, not just a 'tell him not 2 listen 2 wut ppl say'.My friend is very very low on self-confidence, i need 2 help him, any advice?
I had a friend like that and it's incredibly difficult. First of all it starts well by complimenting them - on any aspect from appearance to how he dresses to things he's really good at. You may find that then he will find a fault to contradict you, say something good about him :) if you have any friends that may like him or think he looks cool introduce him too them so he doesn't feel so isolated :) even though he isn't gay take him shopping, he'll most likely really enjoy it especially if it's with just you as he'll forget all about it and have a great time! Contact his parents and get them to subtly build his confidence by complimenting him and doing things with him he enjoys :) get him to open up completely about what distresses him, although it'll be sad at the time it's already a load off his mind :) good luck! x
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