Hi, well, my boyfriend, Sam, has little to no confidence. We're both 18, and he's always been that way since Ive known him (since 8th grade). We started dating a year ago, and I love him, but it seems like he has no confidence at all. I'd even call it extreme shyness. His father's no help at all, we've evenb ucked heads at times. Sam used to stutter as a kid, and still does, and his father calls him an 'idiot', 'moron', and many other words I dont think I can put on here. Its ushered Sam to not talk all together. He only ever talks to me, but in public its as if hes a mute, especially when hes in front of his father. He wont make eye contact with anyone, and just looks so weak. Im not trying to change him, but I just want him to be comfortable and happy. He doesnt have many friends, and because of his quietness, most people have labeled him as an 'emo' as immature as that it.
I was hoping if someone could give me tips on maybe giving him more confidence. Ive tried giving him compliments, but he just dismisses them saying Im just fattering him, but what Im saying is true! I just dont know what to do anymore :/ if someone could give me some advice, I would be very appreciative...thanks.I need serious advice on how to help my boyfriend gain confidence
Keep complimenting him and well when he says your trying to flatter him look him in the eye and kiss him and tell him you love him and well tell him the good stuff works for me.
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