I am Depressed any advice to help me?

I am depressed i was dumped by my girlfriend on wednesday i have 2 girlfriends so far this year the one relationship lasted 10 day and the other one lasted 4 days. Why is it so hard to find a girlfriend. I go around and i see lads with girlfriends and i hear stories of happy relationships. so why is not happening for. And now i am getting depressed the only positive i can take from all this is i was single for 3 months before i met the second girl.





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ThanksI am Depressed any advice to help me?
Mate lol i havent had a girlfriend for 2 years,well done son 2 girlfriends this years is good even if they didnt last long.I only managed 3 months with my last girlfriend 2 years ago,ive never had a happy long relationship either and im 27 man im not ugly either.Its not hard to find a girlfriend,the hard part is getting the balls to ask them out all the time.You also have to be in the right mood,some days im not in the mood to even look at women and others i feel really confident and ready for action.Anyways at the end of the day dont think you are the only one who has trouble with finding girlfriends,it might look like everybody has a girlfriend and not you but most of the people with girlfriends have had to make allot of effort to get the girl behind the scenes.At the end of the day you have to make allot of effort if you want to find a proper girlfriend its not going to be really easy.Just be a man,make money and the girl will come allong as long as you get yourself out allot and talk to girls as often as it seems possible.Ive had enough of being single man the next girl that shows any interest im going to make a real effort to make her mine





@becky A it doesnt work like that sweety,if it did he wouldnt be asking for adviceI am Depressed any advice to help me?
just not found the right girl yet mate, keep trying tho. perhaps you aren't your real self meeting your past two girlfriends, i had that problem when i met a girl, she later told me months later she found me dull and borin, which i aint and i wasnt on msn, just nerves thats all.





just try and be urself and use humour, humour pulls and gets the girl interested in u for a few weeks when revealing the real u
everyone has said it but it is true the right one girl hasn't come around yet that's what dating is for you are basically finding out of you are right for each other and you are going to get let down before you find the right girl.





But i know the feeling when all your friends have a special girl or guy and it feels like you are alone but its one of things that just happens when you least expect it so you are almost totally clueless until she comes along





Just keep your head up high and take it all as experience for the future
ohh :/ aww, thats tough. but seriously try not to get to upset about it all. i know that sounds wierd but just keep your chin up. i sometimes have like depressed phases but then i realise, theres no point in getting upset cause things tend to get better eventually. just hang out with friends and family adn clearly those girls are just pathtic. try %26amp; find someone where something will last.
You're turn will come when you least expect it. Don't look too desperate, desperation never gets you any where.You just haven't found the right girl yet but you will one day. So go out and have some fun with you're mates, there is nothing wrong with being single.
look you will find someone trust me when its right ya will know yourself???enjoy your single life for now and it will just happen ,,,i wouldnt dwel on it to must honestly,,them girls just werent for you








hope this helps
pull yourself together man.
Enjoy your life single!


go to clubs


drink till you puke


have a lass every night!