Help this 18 year old i need advice please read?

I used to be really fat all my life and no girl used to dig me. Now that i'm 18 and already lost all the weight, i get attention now from the girls. I em still a virgin, and had never had an official girlfriend as well. I still got low self esteem, and i feel very shy around girls still. Last time a girl i was seeing played me as well which was 3 months ago (She left me really depressed). What should i do?Help this 18 year old i need advice please read?
Well that's good that you're in shape now, and you're obviously attractive if girls approach you.





Just start to talk to girls, get to know them.


You don't even have to ask them out on a date or anything yet, just become friends.


It'll boost your confidence once you get to know some girls.





Once you get to the point where you're more used to being around girls and you're a little more outgoing, just casually ask a girl on a date. Once you already got used to talking to your friends that are girls, it'll be easier to have a good conversation with her, so don't be scared that it'll be awkward.


And don't worry if you're a little shy, girls like guys that are a tiny bit shy.





'Bout the girl who played you, don't mind that. She obviously was a very shallow person, and you don't want that anyway, so good thing you're not seeing her anymore.


You can find someone wayyy better I bet. You sound very sweet.Help this 18 year old i need advice please read?
Becoming thin is like being born into this new person. It has its perks, and one of them is more attention from the opposite sex.





Because you do no have relationship experience, it seems so hard to conquer these challenges you face. But let me remind you, everybody goes through the same things in their lives. So don't be depressed about being a late bloomer or a virgin or a prude or whatever.





Everyone has his own track record, and comparing yours from the others will do you no good. So in conclusion, accept that you are what you are, and becoming something else takes time and commitment. It happened for you physically, socially it will happen to you as well.
I can see why you would be shy around girls because of your past situation with being heavy and having a girl play you. Just try and realize that you are a new you and that girls are attracted to you now. If you think that one of them likes you, ask her to dinner or a movie. If she says no, oh well there are other fish in the sea for you my dear. Also you need to realize that there are people out there, guys and girls, that do mess around on their partner. Just try and be picky on who you pick to be with.
You need to start reading some of these articles.





http://winnersdontthink.com/?p=79


http://winnersdontthink.com/?p=30


http://winnersdontthink.com/?p=14





If you need more help feel free to e-mail me at stevo@winnersdontthink.com and I'd love to help you out in any way I can.
dude just approah girl
Don't worry about the one girl, **** happens. Be confident thats what girls like. When a guy is timid its a big turn off.