Friday, January 8, 2010

I need some relationship advice, help?

my boyfriend just graduated from high school and I feel like we are not as close at all anymore. like when we talk its different, i feel like there's maybe something missing I've never been someone to be attached and ditch my friends for him, so this is new for me. what should I do?I need some relationship advice, help?
talk to him about how you're feeling. if things dont get better, break it off. :DI need some relationship advice, help?
talk about it...
did ya'll break up?


i feel the same way :(
did u break up?? if so u feel this way 4 th way u left it. if u r still in high skool u r stuck thr with all th memories tht th 2 of u had 2gether. if u didnt, u miss him and wish u could c him more often lik ur high skool relationship. u prob want wht u r 2 havin and miss it.
You should just talk to him and ask him if he feels the same way and go from there.


good luck
Time if flying by everyone these days. It's putting major affect on us. It's just because you're starting your future things are getting stressful. It will get better, you just have to settle into the new environment. If you two are really really close, it shouldn't be too much of a problem. I hope I helped!


----Dear Bunni
I can tell that you love this person a lot. Haha,coincidentally enough, I dated a senior in high school.





Well, when people graduate, some of them become...different. No one really knows why. It could be the new atmosphere that they're trying to get accustomed to. Or, it just might be a maturity shock. It all depends on the person.





My advice? Try to get to know this 'new person'. But don't go to the point where you start ditching your friends for this guy. Get to know this person on your own time. You'll soon figure out if he's changed for the better or worse.
Talk to him. Nothing's ever gonna change if you don't make a change. If you don't do anything about it, then this is how it's gonna be. Talk to him, tell him how you're feeling. Maybe even write it out first, get all your feelings out without having any interruptions and then you'll know exactly what you want to say





But p.s. guys will come and go... but true friends will last forever. you may find one great guy right away or you may go through a hundred guys before you find the right one, but best friends are always there for you. Don't ditch them for a guy. It's not worth risking a lasting friendship for something that may end that night.





Bottom line: Talk to him. Nothing's gonna change if you don't make the change. Keep that in mind. Good luck and hope this helps :)
You shouldn't ever ditch your friends for a guy.. All you can do is talk to him and find out how hes feeling :)
Talk to him! Any relationship, friends, work or lovers should always have a foundation of communication. Otherwise it will all grow weak.





Remember that everything needs constant nurturing in order to grow. Any relationship that is destined to survive will need communication, understanding and appreciation as well as support and acceptance.





Best of luck to you both, you sound like a very sweet person!
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Just like everyone else said. Have a detail talk with him. He must have something to say. Believe me talking b/w couples do wonder and resolve things.
as we get older we pull away form different things and people, maybe he has al ot on his mind with collage or work just set down and talk it out.
I think you should try and talk to him..just to see what he feels about it. Relationships are all about communication..and compromise. Even if u r not the kind to be ';attached';, u still need to make sure u allow time for your significant other...
just sit down with each other and talk it out. Ask him if he's feeling the same way or what he thinks about the whole thing. Both of you as a couple need to be able to sit and talk about eachothers feelings and opinions because, trust me, letting it go wont do anything but make it worse. Hope this helps and i wish you 2 the best of luck%26lt;3
talk to him thats all you can do. Sounds like things ar coming to an end
I think u should break apart for ur college year still(sorta) go out but still meet new ppl at ur college and see if ur high school love is more loving than da one u meet at college! and tell ur high school love before u go to college about the meeting ppl and seeing if yall r the one! u'll never know ur college boo could be ur husband!!!!! :) and ur friends will love u for wat ur desision is (if there ur real friends) and u dont even have to ditch them just try to make things work! like at least once a week or twice ur friends can go out and one night u go out wit ur boo!

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